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AndWithYou
How it works

You tell us what's happening. We help make the path clearer.

Your plan is a living record, not a checklist you print once. Different parts of the work often lives in different places, AndWithYou keeps the thread between them, so the person helping in month four can see what was decided in week one.

01
Getting started
The first hour
The family

Share a little about what is happening and where your family is.

AndWithYou

Starts your plan, notes what is time-sensitive and sets out the first few steps.

02
Immediate needs
Days 1–3
The family

Gather identification, tell the people who need to know, look after the home.

AndWithYou

Brings forward the two or three steps that unblock everything else, and notes records you'll be asked for.

03
Arrangements
Days 2–10
The family

Decide what happens, choose who to work with, agree a date.

AndWithYou

Explains the reason behind each step and helps you bring in a funeral home or attorney without retelling your story.

04
The service
Week 2–4
The family

Carry out the plans with the details shared across the family.

AndWithYou

Keeps who is doing what, and by when, visible so it doesn't all land on one person.

05
What follows
Month 1–9
The family

Benefits, accounts, property and estate tasks.

AndWithYou

Keeps the same context so each new step starts from what is already known.

What AndWithYou will and won't do

Helpful where it can be, honest where it can't.

AndWithYou works from what you have already told us, and it hands the question over when a person is the better answer.

Explains why

Recommendations that matter come with the reason behind them and the records they were based on.

Asks less of you

What is already known gets reused, so your family isn't answering the same questions again.

Knows its boundary

Legal, financial, medical or uncertain questions go to a qualified professional instead of a confident guess.

Start my plan

Private by default. Free for families to start.

Safety and trust

You are handing us a hard moment. Here is exactly how we treat it.

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  • Private by default

    Nothing is shared with a funeral home, attorney or counselor unless you release it, per person and per document.

    Read the privacy notice
  • No paid rankings

    No organization can buy a higher position. Ordering is based on fit, not on who pays us.

    See the directory
  • Every suggestion shows its reason

    You can open the reasoning behind every recommendation, and see everything that was done.

    How AndWithYou works